Topic is Sleeping.
Cathyi (original poster member #56209) posted at 3:49 PM on Sunday, December 11th, 2016
By Ana nogales. Has anyone read? It was recommended to me by a therapist friend. It's on the way but now I'm thinking why didn't I just buy it for my kindle!
Married 18 years
BS 43, WH 45
DD 14, DS 12
Dday #1-11/26/15
Dday #2-11/17/16
Same AP....they never cut contact...found out a year later
mamazen ( member #42137) posted at 11:39 PM on Saturday, December 17th, 2016
Read it....it's a good read. Explains the psychologic consequences of having a cheating parent. It helped my behaviour a little because he pointed out things that we do (as BS or WS) that scare/harm children.
When I was finished, I gave it to WS (bc his mother had a lifelong open affair). It's good for adult children of cheaters to understand some of their mischigas.
I would recommend it, but it wasn't life-changing. But solid.
mamazen
me 57
WH 58
married 19 years
separated since 3/2013 (in house until 8/2013)
D FINAL! Sept 10 2014
D-day Dec 21 2013 (after separation)
2 sons 17 and 13
OW = family friend and WH work colleague, going on m
Mr Integrity ( member #55542) posted at 9:03 PM on Wednesday, January 11th, 2017
Would this be good to read because of the effects on my kids?
BS 37
WW 40
Two sons 16 and 7
D Day 09.05.16
Together 17
Married 8.5 yrs
When life knocks you down, calmly get back up, smile, and very politely say, "You hit like a bitch".
Topic is Sleeping.
