Topic is Sleeping.
Hobbyist (original poster member #55532) posted at 10:53 PM on Wednesday, February 16th, 2022
Just wanted to a throw a little reassurance out here for anyone who has trouble trusting your gut.
I recently found out that my 2nd to last girlfriend (not LDR girl but the one before her) cheated on me - if not physically, emotionally at a minimum. I found out through a mutual friend she basically had her next boyfriend lined up months before we broke up.
Here's the thing! I KNEWWW this girl had red flags, and she talked me into ignoring them (I tried to break up with her several times the first few months when flags were flying). She always talked me out of it, and we stayed together for 1.5 years, with many red flags/pits in my stomach feelings that I ignored.
It's been a while since that breakup, so I'm not that hurt (I'm mostly angry), though it does mess with your head a bit. I just wanted to give some reassurance to people to trust your gut, and don't let people talk you out of that!
BH, 30's with 3 beautiful kids. Divorced in 2017 - SO much happier!
Topic is Sleeping.
