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I wasn’t sure if any of the folks I first started with on this crazy journey were still around so thought I would post here to start.

After 11 years from Dday, I am sad to say I am filing for D. There have been good times during the 11 years where I felt I could trust WH, I did uncover some porn use now and then.

Two weeks ago I uncovered him using and only fans account - it looked like for a couple of weeks but who knows if this has been ongoing. I also saw where he lost 25K from a 401 k account, took out loans I didn’t know about and has been paying some other odd accounts. It’s terrible.

When confronted he lied of course and then kind of admitted some of it. I have asked him to leave, but he has t yet. He found out I just opened my own bank account and was furious with me. Hmmmm I do a normal thing most women do but he has clearly lied and deceived me?

I can’t believe it’s happening, we are so close to retirement and had so many lovely plans. I know I will be ok, but it’s hard. I have good support from family and friends.

Fact is he is a sex addict who never completely overcame his addiction. He tried a lot of things but I don’t think fully engaged. I know you guys will understand.

I'm so sorry for you. I want to send you strength and support. You don't desrve this.

Thank you, I really do need all the support I can get. It’s surreal. I had a dream last night that all was peaceful and then work up to knowing it’s real life that’s the nightmare.

Six months ago I had a horrible bicycle accident and badly broke both my arm and leg. I couldn’t walk for months. The recovery has been long and painful. I couldn’t have imagined ending the year with this unimaginable emotional pain.

Hard to accept I married a monster and stayed for so long.

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