UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 2:23 PM on Thursday, September 27th, 2012
Is there any way I can pay for my membership annually? I normally send a donation through a CC and paypal, but I don’t want a direct debit on the account or to pay monthly. Would this option mess things up for you? 
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:23 PM on Thursday, September 27th, 2012
UKgirl...
Currently to upgrade your account its through using your CC by the means it's set up on the site
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Lost and Betraye ( member #33988) posted at 9:21 PM on Thursday, September 27th, 2012
When I click on the Platinum drop down, it says it does not recognize my user name, which was prefilled when I followed the link??
Me=BS 50; Him=WS 46; Dday 11/10/11
Married 13 years; together 20
Kids: DD11;(2) grown boys/men from my previous marriage to a WS
Status: Divorcing
"The past is a guidepost, not a hitching post" L Thomas Holdcroft
MangledHeart (original poster webmaster #1) posted at 12:03 AM on Friday, September 28th, 2012
When I click on the Platinum drop down, it says it does not recognize my user name
Please try it again. It should work now.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
Angelstar5 ( member #35276) posted at 3:37 AM on Friday, September 28th, 2012
i cant sift thru all the posts here lol but i need help. I paid for the membership but how do i search archives? please help! thanks
Me 56,WH 55alcoholic/Married 25y
2 kids age 16 and 28
DDay #1-7/3/94 hooker, DDAY #2,2/10/12 found 100's of calls to a hooker gaslighting begins. DDay#3 3/26/12 proof/TT DDay#4 3/28/12 weekly sex with 2 hookers Dec-Feb. Several EAs
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 3:56 AM on Friday, September 28th, 2012
Angelstar5...
Your account was upgraded so all you need to do is go out to the main forum page and click on the link in the red banner.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:53 PM on Monday, October 1st, 2012
Just an update...
Our CC processor has updated our account so all transactions will appear as SI Online on your cc bill.
I just tested it and checked my pending cc charge on line and it does show up at SI Online.
WHew! 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
averysadindian ( member #29352) posted at 6:00 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012
Hi,
I just became a Platinum member..thank you for offering this opportunity...
How can I access the previous records of my entries on the forums.
AVSI
Me BS 35
She WS 35
Married 8 years, together 13 years
No children
DDay#1- 17 Aug 2010 D Day #2 17 March 2011
Status : Separated (Aug 2011) and ready for D. Trying to make it happen amicably.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 7:12 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2012
How can I access the previous records of my entries on the forums.
Click on the red banner link on the main forum page, go into your Profile and then click on View Older Posts
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
FrozenTear ( member #32680) posted at 6:58 PM on Tuesday, October 9th, 2012
Not a bad idea at all. I will have to wait until the new year due to several expenses coming up. Heck even an extra dollar being spent is not really accessible right now.
Nice upgrades offers though! :)
BS (me/wife)
WS (husband)
Last DD (12/14/2010)
Together since Dec, 19th 2006
"Chaos begins to multiply, exponential memories overide my sympathies."
spincycle ( member #5853) posted at 4:33 PM on Sunday, October 14th, 2012
DS and MH,
I'm happy to contribute, this place is worth a years worth of counselor co-pays =)
So I can go back to 04? That's wild. Part of me is curious, the open part doesn't want to be back there. Looking forward to going platinum.
EDIT: I see now it says posts from 08. No problem.
[This message edited by spincycle at 10:38 AM, October 14th (Sunday)]
Me, 37 BH
WS, 32, and 6 (now 10) (now 12)separate affairs
DS 5, and DD 2.
D-DAY 11-18-04
Divorced 2-2012, if only I had listen to you all in 04, if only I had run away.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 4:39 PM on Sunday, October 14th, 2012
spincycle...
Holy hell...it's so good to see you!!!
The posts go back to 2008, you may see some from further back under your Premium upgrade...but it's no guaranteed
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
spincycle ( member #5853) posted at 4:43 PM on Sunday, October 14th, 2012
Hey DS, long time! Hope you both are well. Mine are not showing, but that's ok. 1500 posts would be way to much for me to sift through. I like the changes to the site, Glad to see some healing on some people from back in the day, some are even mods now!
Edit again: my bad, I didn't know what simplicity was. I see the old ones, man, these go WAY back.
[This message edited by spincycle at 10:46 AM, October 14th, 2012 (Sunday)]
Me, 37 BH
WS, 32, and 6 (now 10) (now 12)separate affairs
DS 5, and DD 2.
D-DAY 11-18-04
Divorced 2-2012, if only I had listen to you all in 04, if only I had run away.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:15 PM on Sunday, October 14th, 2012
MH and I are doing well...thank you
I'm glad you like the changes...it's always nice when our old members come back and see some of the upgrades we've done
Really good to see you!!
Today's a big day in Houston...hopefully 6-0 for the Texans!!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
spincycle ( member #5853) posted at 7:30 PM on Sunday, October 14th, 2012
Girl, I'm crossing every limb!
I've become a fanatical Texans fan. Never paid attention to football until a few years ago, it's become a nice hobby and distraction. Great to hear you both are doing well, really great to hear!
I will say these next two games have me nervous, GB was 15-1 last year.
Me, 37 BH
WS, 32, and 6 (now 10) (now 12)separate affairs
DS 5, and DD 2.
D-DAY 11-18-04
Divorced 2-2012, if only I had listen to you all in 04, if only I had run away.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:06 PM on Sunday, October 14th, 2012
When I went to Kroger this morning...EVERYONE was wearing Texan jersey's, hats, t-shirts...lol!! I love it!!
If you're ever up here in The Woodlands...let me know and MH and I will treat you to a beer
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
spincycle ( member #5853) posted at 8:28 PM on Wednesday, October 17th, 2012
Ds,
thanks for the invite, I'm up in the woodlands quite often. My parents and brother live there.
Yeah, jerseys are sold out all over. But wow, was that a painful game to watch. The Falcons have me really nervous.
Me, 37 BH
WS, 32, and 6 (now 10) (now 12)separate affairs
DS 5, and DD 2.
D-DAY 11-18-04
Divorced 2-2012, if only I had listen to you all in 04, if only I had run away.
Sissi12 ( new member #37163) posted at 10:16 PM on Wednesday, October 17th, 2012
This is a great idea. Thank you for the work.
momto7 ( new member #37294) posted at 12:29 AM on Monday, October 29th, 2012
Sounds good..but i'm kind of on the broke side right now. Soon though
Newchapter ( member #36525) posted at 3:00 PM on Monday, November 12th, 2012
MangledHeart or DeeplyScared, can you please PM me I have no way of PMing you and can not discuss here my question about premium access. Thanks!
Me: BS - 52
Him: WS - 51 NPD, 5-year LTA
Filed for D 7/2011
