BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 3:15 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
bump for Tdock 
NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 6:35 PM on Monday, June 16th, 2014
Bumped for those who haven't seen this yet...
Wayflost ( member #41583) posted at 7:51 PM on Monday, June 23rd, 2014
"Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly."
JustWant2BHappy ( member #43351) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, June 26th, 2014
Wow - Thanks Maia. This is really wonderful and helpful. I also am printing it and reading it daily, it has given me strength today.
DrJekyll ( member #43618) posted at 6:57 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
A wound can be stitched shut, but it decides when it will heal on its own.
ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)
I do not PM with Women
Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny. C.S.Lewis
ImSorry11 ( member #43517) posted at 7:06 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014
Me: WW 33
Him: BH 37
DDay 5/23/14, 4 month EA/PA
Married 8 years Together 12
3 Beautiful Kiddos
Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 7:10 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014
Thank you!!
Still learningytonavig atethis forum . Is there a way for me to save threads or bookmark or flag them for myself ?
Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
NewWorldMan ( member #33607) posted at 6:02 PM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
tangledknot ( member #43927) posted at 8:02 PM on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014
Thank you for this bump. I saved this to a word document on my laptop a could weeks ago. I will read it again. Hopefully this sinks in soon.
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 8:49 PM on Wednesday, July 30th, 2014
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 9:22 PM on Monday, August 11th, 2014
RMarred ( member #44242) posted at 10:16 PM on Tuesday, August 12th, 2014
This is wonderful, Maia. Thank you.
Even though I truly am not missing OW one bit, I found this a very good read, for many of the other points it made!
Me: WBF
Her: BGF (SparrowSoul)
D-Day: 7/5/14
I was up above it. Now I'm down in it.
PenitentMan ( member #43174) posted at 3:20 PM on Wednesday, August 27th, 2014
Me: FWH (39)
Her: BW (34)
DDay 1: March 2013 (EA/PA that *I* rugswept)
DDay 2: April 2014 (PA with double betrayal. OW was wife's friend)
Married: Since 2001
StartingFreshNow ( member #44224) posted at 11:08 PM on Wednesday, September 24th, 2014
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 8:11 PM on Thursday, October 9th, 2014
bump....
I wish there was a way to pin this to the top of the Wayward section.
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 9:38 AM on Sunday, October 19th, 2014
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18
Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 9:53 PM on Monday, October 27th, 2014
Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
somethingremorse ( member #42047) posted at 6:02 PM on Monday, November 3rd, 2014
Bump.
I've never bumped something before.
Me: WH (40s)
DDay 11/03/13
In MC and IC
Macsecond ( member #43972) posted at 7:58 PM on Tuesday, November 18th, 2014
Me - WW (42)
Him - BH (40)
Married 18 years.
2 amazing daughters (DD10 and DD6)
DDay - July 4, 2014 (I confessed to 5 month OEA)
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 11:23 PM on Thursday, November 20th, 2014
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
