Topic is Sleeping.
Jeaniegirl (original poster member #6370) posted at 7:23 PM on Wednesday, December 27th, 2023
Girl! So proud of you. And you are WINNING all the battles and will win big in the end of it all. The sole custody deal is HUGE and protects your kiddos - and YOU and that is a big win. I'm so glad the courts recognized the danger and acted on that. XWH is going to be hit hard on the money and rightfully so.
So glad about your weight loss as you will feel better and have more energy. AND look beautiful. More energy to chase horses and goats and fix the fences. 
"Because I deserve better"
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 7:40 PM on Wednesday, December 27th, 2023
So happy you are feeling better!
Prayers for your family and for continued healing.
I hope you are enjoying your new clothes!!
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 8:48 PM on Wednesday, December 27th, 2023
XWH is going to be hit hard on the money and rightfully so.
If he had just given the basic child support over the last 7 months, he wouldn't be hit hard. Cutting us off completely was a dick move, as was canceling the insurance on the van when he knew it was the only transportation we had.
I would have thought he'd at least want to make sure his children were taken care of regardless if how much he hates me. But no. I had to cancel appointments for the kids because of no vehicle!
So yes I want him held accountable for what he owes the kids!
And sole custody is a major deal. Sad though that he didn't even attempt for visitation!
The new clothes are wonderful! I seriously don't know how our secret Santa managed to get things that fit so perfectly.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 6:28 PM on Sunday, December 31st, 2023
Such great updates from you Dragn!!! Sounds like XWH is getting what he deserves. Nothing.
Onward and upward. So proud of you. ♥
Failure is success if we learn from it.
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 1:39 AM on Wednesday, January 3rd, 2024
Congratulations Dragn on getting through this incredible shit-show that was put onto you. You are tough as nails and it shows.
I'm glad that you are all doing as well as you can. It breaks my heart that your STBXH ignored his kids for Christmas. That ain't right. 
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
WhatsRight ( member #35417) posted at 3:13 AM on Wednesday, January 3rd, 2024
I’m so thrilled that you got some justice..it so seldom happens these days it seems.
It would definitely be better if your kid had a dad in their lives for visitation and such…but not HIM. It will be good for them not to have to deal with the heartbreak and disappointment v
So proud that you have survived this whole mess.
As Rose Kennedy said…"I will not be vanquished." And you haven’t been. 👍👍👍👍👍
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Topic is Sleeping.
