silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 12:00 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014
Thank you DS, that's what I'll do. 
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
IDeserveMore ( member #40460) posted at 4:23 PM on Wednesday, March 26th, 2014
QUESTION: if I sign up for one of the premium accounts, what does the charge show up as on my credit card?
I don't want to lead my WH to this site. He knows I am on a site like this, but not which one. And I want to retain my privacy.
Me 54, WH 57, 25yo DD, 23yo DS. DD#1 1998 followed by 1 year of blatant denialDD#2 2004 followed by 6 YEARS OF TT. Do I win for the longest TT on this site? Divorced and so very happy!
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 6:55 PM on Friday, March 28th, 2014
IDeserveMore...
It shows up as SI Online
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
strengthandhope ( member #37907) posted at 8:49 PM on Thursday, April 3rd, 2014
I upgraded to silver access and the charge on my credit card was for $39.84...I thought it was only $19.95?
Me: BS 30s
Him: SAWH, 30s sexting, pic sharing & phone sex with men & women
2 kids, M 8 yrs
DD#1 3/08, DD#2 7/11, DD#3 10/12 DD#4 2/14
OW #1 PA from 6/13-8/13 CL Troll
OW #2 EA from 11/13-2/14 online/phone sex A
Taking R 90 days at a time.
strengthandhope ( member #37907) posted at 4:32 PM on Tuesday, April 8th, 2014
Any help for me? I thought silver access was less than $20, but the charge on my card was for $39.84
Me: BS 30s
Him: SAWH, 30s sexting, pic sharing & phone sex with men & women
2 kids, M 8 yrs
DD#1 3/08, DD#2 7/11, DD#3 10/12 DD#4 2/14
OW #1 PA from 6/13-8/13 CL Troll
OW #2 EA from 11/13-2/14 online/phone sex A
Taking R 90 days at a time.
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 4:37 PM on Tuesday, April 8th, 2014
I'm sorry, I thought I replied to you earlier.
I do show the charge of $39.84, the Silver upgrade is $19.92 and those amounts are hardcoded into the system, so you may have hit the Enter key twice by accident.
I can certainly do a refund for the additional $19.92 for you.
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
strengthandhope ( member #37907) posted at 12:30 AM on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014
Thank you I appreciate it!
Me: BS 30s
Him: SAWH, 30s sexting, pic sharing & phone sex with men & women
2 kids, M 8 yrs
DD#1 3/08, DD#2 7/11, DD#3 10/12 DD#4 2/14
OW #1 PA from 6/13-8/13 CL Troll
OW #2 EA from 11/13-2/14 online/phone sex A
Taking R 90 days at a time.
Nothanks ( member #43225) posted at 6:29 AM on Tuesday, April 29th, 2014
Do we have to donate after 51 posts?
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 2:08 PM on Tuesday, April 29th, 2014
Nothanks...
No one is required to donate anything, so I'm a little unclear with your question.
If you could clarify I'll be happy to help
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:50 PM on Saturday, May 31st, 2014
YaY! I am now a platinum member (along with my platinum va jay jay) 
There is a feature that I didn't think I would ever use, but since someone else saw fit to use it on me, I want to use it back so I am not reminded everytime that this person is a "mean girl" who doesn't like moi .
I can't find the way to "block" someone, can I get a PM or explain how to do that here?
Thanks so much!
eta: The term I was looking for was "unfollow" or "forget" and I figured it out on my own.
[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 11:46 AM, May 31st (Saturday)]
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 4:58 PM on Saturday, May 31st, 2014
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
MissMovingOn ( member #30720) posted at 7:26 PM on Monday, June 9th, 2014
Feature request - not sure if this has already been commented on/asked.
When I'm using Simplicity and my "session" expires (after the two weeks or whatever the default is) I get kicked to an error page that says my upgrade level doesn't allow me to use that feature (or whatever the exact message is - not sure). Would it be possible, instead of just that error message, to either be redirected to the login page or have a link to the login page on the error page? It's not so bad on a computer to have to backtrack to the login page but on my phone it's a bit of a pain going back to the main page and then loading up the "non-simplicity" page to log in.
No biggie if this would be a pain in the ass. 
Me: BS, 34
Him: (SA/NPD)WH, 31
Multiple ddays since 2010 (Latest January 15th 2013) - not counting anymore!
FINAL FINAL DDay - August 8, 2014. I AM DONE!
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 5:44 PM on Tuesday, June 10th, 2014
MissMovingOn...
MH will look into this for you and we'll let you know
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:02 AM on Monday, June 16th, 2014
Is there a way to un forget someone who has been blocked from the site?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:03 AM on Monday, June 16th, 2014
Miss moving on, I have two bookmarks on my phone for that reason - the simplicity one I use, and the main log in page just for when it expires.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
MangledHeart (original poster webmaster #1) posted at 11:05 PM on Monday, June 16th, 2014
When your session expires in SImplicity you will now be directed to the SImplicity login page instead of the feature unavailable page.
You can now delete follow and forget links from within your profile using the regular interface. This programming has not yet been extended to the SImplicity interface.
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 1:31 PM on Wednesday, June 18th, 2014
When your session expires in SImplicity you will now be directed to the SImplicity login page instead of the feature unavailable page.
Great!!! This will make it so much easier to log in on my phone and tablet. I've rarely use SImplicity because I always have to log in!
Failure is success if we learn from it.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 9:48 AM on Saturday, June 21st, 2014
Thanks MH!
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
MissMovingOn ( member #30720) posted at 3:47 AM on Sunday, June 22nd, 2014
Thank you thank you thank you!
Me: BS, 34
Him: (SA/NPD)WH, 31
Multiple ddays since 2010 (Latest January 15th 2013) - not counting anymore!
FINAL FINAL DDay - August 8, 2014. I AM DONE!
deceivedguy ( member #44049) posted at 4:05 AM on Saturday, July 12th, 2014
Two questions;
1) There is a link to donations via PayPal, when following the heart link above the navigation menu.
Can I use that donation to upgrade my profile? On the profile update page, there is only the option to use credit cards.
2) If I upgrade my profile to silver, can i pay the difference at a later date to upgrade to a higher level (for the remainder of my upgrade period)?
Thanks!
Me (49), WW (44), 2 Awesome DDs
DDay 6/2/2014 - 16 years married
Possibly new or continuing A, currently.
Worst experience of my life. Still having a tough time dealing with this. I appreciate your support, more than I can express.
