SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 11:13 PM on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 8:26 PM on Friday, March 12th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
lilac18 ( member #25180) posted at 10:24 PM on Friday, March 12th, 2010
Me/BW 45
WH 35
DDay 08/09/09
Reconciled
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Albert Einstein
lost_in_toronto ( member #25395) posted at 8:18 PM on Monday, March 15th, 2010
Me: BS/48
Him: WS/46
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 23 years.
Reconciled.
mplpmom ( member #27266) posted at 10:16 PM on Thursday, March 18th, 2010
Me - BW (36)
Him - WH (35)
M - 7 years, together 11
DD - 5, DS - 2
DDay - 12/26/09
R is an on again off again ride and I am starting to feel queasy.
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 10:35 PM on Monday, March 22nd, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
ThriveNotSurvive ( member #22093) posted at 5:08 PM on Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010
Strength, Courage, and Wisdom, it was inside of me all along - India Arie
Some women are Angels, and when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick if we have to...cuz we're flexible that way.
whiteflower99 ( member #13937) posted at 9:07 PM on Wednesday, March 24th, 2010
What are you pretending not to know?
me FBS
him idiotic sex addicted, hormone addled, porn watching, post pubescent male with a walking hard on for anything without a penis
4 kids 15 13 12 8
Earned my *F* the hard way.
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 2:20 PM on Friday, March 26th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
jjct ( member #17484) posted at 1:59 PM on Saturday, March 27th, 2010
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 4:28 PM on Sunday, March 28th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
luvbug0915 ( member #22934) posted at 3:15 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2010
***BUMP***
For crisisrecovery 
"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 3:30 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 3:34 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2010
Maybe this should just get stickied at the top of this forum?
BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.
katiej ( member #14724) posted at 7:47 PM on Monday, March 29th, 2010
First d-day Oct. '06. 3 more after that.
He is working hard. We are R.
2015: He didn't work hard enough. Back again and this time with a diagnosed SA. Living in the "in between" and not yet leaving due to a number of reasons.
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 7:04 PM on Tuesday, March 30th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
SuspiciousWife ( member #18108) posted at 5:55 AM on Thursday, April 1st, 2010
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
lilac18 ( member #25180) posted at 10:23 PM on Sunday, April 4th, 2010
Me/BW 45
WH 35
DDay 08/09/09
Reconciled
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Albert Einstein
SummerBlues ( member #25626) posted at 2:40 PM on Monday, April 5th, 2010
"Inactive infidelity: It’s where he might be committed to not seeing OW but he has not committed to not being in the affair." Bigger
fossilburner ( member #28122) posted at 9:05 PM on Tuesday, April 6th, 2010
"The love for the AP cannot be real, when all you see are the best of them, in secret moments. You don't see the real person. The love is "romantic love" - not the kind of love that lasts." - Mrs Panda
