AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 12:55 AM on Monday, May 5th, 2014
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 8:41 PM on Tuesday, May 6th, 2014
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:03 PM on Wednesday, May 7th, 2014
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
mountainmomma ( member #34388) posted at 9:19 PM on Thursday, May 15th, 2014
Me 37
WS 42 (Mitty)
4 kiddys 9,7,4 &20 mths no5 due August 14
seeing hookers, NSA sites, escorts, anyone willing from 07/08 (i didn't know)left to do full time with no restraints 2010 Returned home march 2011 in R DDay 2.4.2010 OW 30+ age 18-60
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 10:57 PM on Friday, May 16th, 2014
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 12:37 AM on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
BlackHorse ( member #43459) posted at 12:56 AM on Thursday, May 22nd, 2014
Thanks "tushnurse" for looking out for us newbies.
Not together long enough - too many long separations due to her continuing medical issues.
Me - Canadian.
She - American.
Both of us in our fifties.
D-Day - 04/30/14 (while she was away seeking medical assistance in her homeland)
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 9:34 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
omoiyari1985 ( new member #43451) posted at 3:41 AM on Monday, May 26th, 2014
This is really disappointing, if I only would discovered this website and this topic 6 weeks ago. I would've realized my WS wasn't ready for reconciliation.
Now I she has destroyed my perception of her and continuously lying that R isn't on my radar for 2014
BS, BH : 29
WS, WW : 28 (PA, EA) Bipolar, depression, anxiety.
OM, HW, AP: Starbucks barista lives with his mom
DD: beautiful 6 yr old
Married: 3 yrs, together 7+
Dday May 25th
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:40 PM on Monday, May 26th, 2014
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:45 PM on Friday, May 30th, 2014
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Lyonesse ( member #32943) posted at 7:53 AM on Monday, June 2nd, 2014
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:26 PM on Thursday, June 5th, 2014
annb ( member #22386) posted at 10:34 PM on Sunday, June 8th, 2014
norabird ( member #42092) posted at 4:09 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
BuckeyeBlues ( new member #43373) posted at 7:26 PM on Tuesday, June 17th, 2014
Thanks for this - I am happy to report that my husband appears to be truly remorseful...he has done the majority of things needed for reconciliation. He has been honest with me about the OW, answering all my questions, has written a NC letter (even though he broke it off before I found out), lets me see his phone and tablet any time I ask (many times offering it to me if I haven't asked), let me put a GPS tracking device on his phone, so I can see where he is. He has not blamed me at all....says it's all him.
Married for 19 years
Me: 44, BW
Him: 53, WH
2 teenagers
D-Day: 5/7/14
Taking it one day at a time...
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 8:32 PM on Thursday, June 19th, 2014
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 8:43 PM on Wednesday, June 25th, 2014
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777) posted at 3:45 PM on Friday, June 27th, 2014
Bump for the new members.
ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity.
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.
Schadenfreude ( member #43075) posted at 3:04 AM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014
Bump. A lesson that needs repeating
