Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 8:47 AM on Monday, July 4th, 2016
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 8:13 PM on Wednesday, July 6th, 2016
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:03 PM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 10:06 PM on Monday, July 18th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:28 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:13 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 11:59 AM on Monday, August 22nd, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:36 PM on Thursday, September 8th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 12:36 PM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...
AndersonPmz ( new member #55231) posted at 10:56 PM on Wednesday, September 21st, 2016
This is so helpful thank you.
I dont think we are close to any of this.
He thinks I'M making a mountain out of a molehill
He hasnt apologized for any of this past and present.
He is not happy with the no contact.
He thinks when the business is making money we will be better...
very early, I dont know what to feel
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:12 AM on Friday, October 14th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Nooneleft ( member #55589) posted at 12:04 AM on Sunday, October 16th, 2016
So here is my question... concern.. whatever. Dday1 a week and a half ago...
Dday2 a week ago yesterday... yep wtf.
I feel like now that is the only think on my mind.
We still live together. 3 kids...
And when he walk in its the only thing I want to discuss. But I don't.. because I'm scared it's becoming annoying. But I know there are details I don't know... I'm scared to know them and terrified not to...
Fuck this crazy shit we have been hit with!
These are pages of my book I never intended to write...
Me: 34
WH: 37
3 amazing kids 18, 16 and 12!
undecided future.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:28 AM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:57 PM on Sunday, November 20th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 3:01 AM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:07 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2016
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
sassylee ( member #45766) posted at 11:56 PM on Friday, January 6th, 2017
My R(eformed)WH had a 5 month EA in 2012
In my 7th year of R
“LOVE is a commitment, not an emotion. It is a conscious act of a covenant of unconditional love. It is a mindset and a thought process.” - BigHeart2018’s Professor
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 10:23 PM on Monday, January 30th, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:27 AM on Friday, February 10th, 2017
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
Tootenhoot ( new member #57373) posted at 4:50 PM on Friday, February 10th, 2017
I just feel stupid. He is doing most of these things but still doing research about how the sow is really his soul mate. So if he's doing most but not all then what do I do?
