 
				    				Lola88 ( member #41540)		posted at 2:33 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014	
			 
	Makes so much sense, when not much else does! 
 
			 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 8:18 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 8:45 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 8:07 PM on Friday, January 10th, 2014	
				Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			 
				    				ProbableIceCream ( member #37468)		posted at 8:09 PM on Tuesday, January 14th, 2014	
		 			 
				    				UpInTheAirNow ( member #37777)		posted at 2:02 PM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014	
				ME 47
WW 52
DDay 6/13/12
Separated 3/13 and NC for my own sanity. 
Married 17 years, together 27 yrs.		
	 	 			 
				    				brohl5 ( member #13440)		posted at 2:08 PM on Thursday, January 16th, 2014	
				I'm not going to let this define me anymore.  He's gone and I couldn't be happier. 
You couldn't have told me in July and December of 2006, but there really is a life after this mess. 
Breathe, just breathe.		
	 	 			 
				    				ascian ( member #40304)		posted at 7:29 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014	
				Me - BH 41
Her - FWW 38
D-Day: 8/13
Reconciled		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 11:24 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				brkn_heartd ( member #30396)		posted at 5:46 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014	
				Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10		
	 	 			 
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 1:35 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014	
		 			 
				    				tushnurse ( member #21101)		posted at 3:49 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014	
				Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16  at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years.  Old Vet now.		
	 	 			 
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 7:47 PM on Wednesday, February 5th, 2014	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll		
	 	 			 
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 5:59 PM on Thursday, February 6th, 2014	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll		
	 	 			 
				    				kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 1:41 AM on Tuesday, February 11th, 2014	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
		
	 	 			 
				    				yearsofpain25 ( member #42012)		posted at 8:47 PM on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014	
				"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll		
	 	 			 
				    				Simple ( member #18814)		posted at 8:46 PM on Wednesday, February 19th, 2014	
				Love is a choice.
True love is harder to come by than soul mates.  True love requires work.  
Ignorance can be cured with knowledge.  There is no cure for being an idiot.
-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022		
	 	 			 
				    				norabird ( member #42092)		posted at 5:01 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014	
			 			 
				    				FaceFacts ( new member #42464)		posted at 5:29 PM on Friday, February 21st, 2014	
			 
	Thank you! Really helps me to keep a hopeful perspective on the situation when it seems so volatile. 
 
			 			D-day 1/25/14 
BH = Me 
WW = Her 
2 children
Married 20years
Face Facts		
	 	 			 
				    				Lyonesse ( member #32943)		posted at 11:22 PM on Saturday, March 8th, 2014