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Poetic Pain

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 31RS (original poster new member #85747) posted at 2:09 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

I had mentioned on my thread (Lurking here 2 years) how I dealt with my pain by writing poetry because unlike journaling poetry has a beginning and an end so I could kinda keep my pain in a box so to speak.

I was wondering if anyone else wrote poetry as therapy to deal with the pain both BS and WS.

I would love to see others poems and I am willing to post some of mine first if it would make it easier for others to post theirs.

Good idea? Bad idea? Delete this thread?

BH 61
WW 59
D-Day April 1993
Rugswept immediately!

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Asterisk ( member #86331) posted at 2:30 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

In my self imposed silence turned to poetry

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 31RS (original poster new member #85747) posted at 2:38 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

Since we’re all anonymous I thought it might be safe and maybe, just maybe it might help somebody going through a similar situation.

It was self therapy for me and it truly helped!

Asterisk, there might be more folks like you and me on here :)

BH 61
WW 59
D-Day April 1993
Rugswept immediately!

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 2:47 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

Roses are red
Violets are blue
That shit really hurt
So, screw you!

I just wrote that. Not quite Shakespeare, though I think he'd appreciate it. smile

POST THAT POETRY

Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown

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 31RS (original poster new member #85747) posted at 4:35 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

Well there we go, Unhinged gave us our first official poem, I think I understand what he was trying to say :)

BH 61
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Rugswept immediately!

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NoThanksForTheMemories ( member #83278) posted at 5:03 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

I have written poetry in the past, but not for this experience. I've been processing both the affair and some other unfortunate life circumstances through a novel I'm writing, though. I enjoy wordsmithing. :)

WS had a 3 yr EA+PA from 2020-2022, and an EA 10 years ago (different AP). Dday1 Nov 2022. Dday4 Sep 2023. False R for 2.5 months. 30 years together. Divorcing.

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 31RS (original poster new member #85747) posted at 5:48 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

NoThanksForTheMemories, will the novel be shared or will it stay secret. I like word smithing too!

BH 61
WW 59
D-Day April 1993
Rugswept immediately!

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Asterisk ( member #86331) posted at 8:04 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

Roses are red

Violets are blue

That shit really hurt

So, screw you!

The depth Unhinged, the depth! How do you do it? laugh

[This message edited by Asterisk at 8:05 AM, Thursday, August 6th]

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Asterisk ( member #86331) posted at 8:11 AM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

Dream’s rewind

There are seconds
Like these, when
The recall clock ticks
Disorienting clicks
"Tock tick, tock tick"
Rewinding one’s mind
As the veiled past passes
Violating future’s right time

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Pogre ( member #86173) posted at 12:30 PM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

I had an employee from Alaska who was very well liked by my customers because he's a really good talker, but man, he was a huge slacker. I made up some lyrics one day to sing along with the song "Black Betty" for him...

Woah that Kenny

Bam-a-lam

Yo, that Kenny

Bam-a-lam

Does as little as he can

Bam-a-lam

That Alaskan man

Bam-a-lam

Makes love to his hand

Bam-a-lam

Any time he can

Bam-a-lam

Whoa that Kenny

Bam-a-lam

Yo, that Kenny

Bam-a-lam

Not quite a poem, but song lyrics are poetic, yes..? It was quite a hit at work. Kenny even liked it, lol. You have to understand, while he really ground my gears sometimes, he was a great guy, very skilled, and an asset because my customers loved him. We're friends. I just wish he was more productive...

Apologies if this isn't in the spirit of the thread, but I figured we could always use some humor, and you being in the military and all I thought you might appreciate it.

[This message edited by Pogre at 12:47 PM, Thursday, August 6th]

Where am I going... and why am I in this handbasket?

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Asterisk ( member #86331) posted at 1:02 PM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

Pogre,

That was a fun musical poem. Thanks for sharing it. We all can use a laugh and that made me gut laugh till it hurt. laugh

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 31RS (original poster new member #85747) posted at 1:18 PM on Thursday, August 6th, 2026

Asterisk, great poem!

Pogre, always room for humor, always! And I love Black Betty :)

BH 61
WW 59
D-Day April 1993
Rugswept immediately!

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