Has anyone seen Karma do it’s thing in regards to affair?

So I don’t know if I believe in Karma exactly, but I have seen a few things that lean me to believing.
My husband treated me awful during pregnancy it’s when I found out of affair etc. recently I found out that husband told AP about me posting here and she would stalk me here apparently. It’s where I wrote all about my pain and struggles at the time of the affair my complicated pregnancy etc. So she definitely knew how the affair was affecting me.

A few years back I end up finding out (it’s a small small world and the medical field is even smaller) how awful she’s doing single pregnant with 2 other children and working and in school with a situation so similar to mine. She wasn’t married but I guess cheating is cheating. One of her pregnancies I saw her in person when she was ready to deliver at the hospital I worked at. I couldn’t believe my eyes. She looked so bad and no partner in sight. I have seen other things. I often wonder why I got a front row seat to this woman’s misery.

9 comments posted: Tuesday, July 2nd, 2024

He told affair partner about me my posts on Here

Had an argument it came up that he told the affair partner about my posts on here. This was many years ago but I just found out this person had access to my business. He found my posts on computer I guess he was always spying on me.
I posted all my pain and sorrow here. The mental torture I was going through, pregnant, working, taking care of our 3 yr old and on top finding out about all his b/s. It was an awful time for me.
I can’t believe this woman got access to my business through my pathetic husband.
She must have enjoyed knowing about all my pain caused by my husband.
I know this happened so many years ago but man oh man did I marry him the most disloyal piece of work!

11 comments posted: Saturday, June 29th, 2024

Divorcing while living in same home. Questions ??

Hello, my husband cheated before in 2008 with a coworker and started living like a bachelor. My story is in my profile. He never admitted to this but there was some evidence like phone calls, text, MySpace messages.
At the time I had 2 babies and not much help. Coparenting with him was a nightmare so it was easier to give it another chance.
Now it’s years later he works somewhere else but he has a new coworker that he trained or is training I’m not even sure and they became close it seems.
Well I took a look at his phone since I have access and I check it from time to time and I see a message they Snapchat a lot at work. He claims it’s all work stuff to make things easier. When I asked him questions he told me this woman is lesbian and is married to a woman. I think he said this to mislead me into thinking nothing could be going on. but I found out she has very young kids so she’s probably bisexual.

I told him how I feel. He denies anything inappropriate. He’s the problem in this marriage he seems to find himself with coworkers getting extra close cheating eventually. I’m tired of this I don’t want to see what’s next for me and him. I really want this done to be at peace. My kids are older so coparenting should t be as big Of a nightmare as it was before.
I’m not sure how to get a divorce while living in the same home. He doesn’t want to leave and has nowhere to go I guess. I’m not leaving and my 3 kids shouldn’t have to move around.
I’m also not sure how he will react to divorce papers. How did your spouse react? We’re you living in the same home? Any advice or input greatly appreciated. Thank you.

2 comments posted: Monday, December 19th, 2022

Husband has Snapchat coworker lesbian fem

I took a look in husbands phone found snapchat msg from his coworker who he says is a married lesbian female. It wasn’t anything sexual just "friendly" asking him how vacation was going. (He had just started vacation 2 hours before this message)
I see there’s a "best friend" award next to her name it’s what snapchat app gives to people you message each other the most on Snapchat app.
This woman is married and has kids from previous relationships with men so does her wife. They have been coworkers for about 3 months. She is very feminine looking but her wife is masculine.
I told him I found this and asked questions. I’m not sure what else to do. I feel like this is cheating and given his history it’s either something beginning or has already started.
Im 39 hes 43 and other woman is about same age. We have 2 teens and one 8 year old.
Have been married about 20 years.

Not sure what to do or even how to act. Any input is appreciated.

22 comments posted: Sunday, December 18th, 2022