BH (me) 35
WW (her) 35
Married 10+ years
3 children (8d, 5d, 2s)
D-day 05/17/2009
OM was an older friend
5-6 week A EA-->PA
Triggers 15 years later
D-Day 05/17/2009. My world was shattered that morning when I discovered my wife’s affair. We did not separate, but spent months working through the process.
I consider our story a successful one. She has worked as hard as I have for fifteen years to make our marriage a happy and functional one.
I still, however, experience triggers and anxiety. It tends to happen around this time of year (d-day anniversary). It has gotten better over time, but this year has been rough.
Has anyone else had these triggers after such a long time in reconciliation?
6 comments posted: Monday, June 10th, 2024
