Just need someplace to vent...

I haven't posted in years with my own troubles, but I can't seem to tell if my fww's attitude over the last several months are some sort of depression or another A, or desire to A. I had to ask her and it wasn't well received. She insisted that she is not A or pre-A. I have no proof to the contrary other than an eerily similar attitude that I haven't seen in years. There are a few random pics of male coworkers and I have put my guard down over the years but I didn't suspect any unhealthy relationships.

She apologized for everything she has ever done to hurt me and wishes she could be a better person but it is followed by sulking and then right back to a constant and uncomfortable arrogance. I suggested she see a physician or a therapist but she declines. Then I asked her if we could go to MC. She said we already tried that so she didn't think it would do any good. That was more than 10 years ago so I was very perplexed.

I know I need to do either IC and/or MC. I feel like I need to make MC a condition of M vs D. I don't want to spend my golden years sick to my stomach. I don't think she is in an A, but my gut tells me she is full-on pre-A. I'd rather D than live like this.

I don't know that I have any questions, I just needed someplace safe to vent. I have no one IRL to discuss this and just needed to be heard. Thanks for listening. I wish all of you peace as you navigate your relationships.

4 comments posted: Friday, September 6th, 2024

Verizon - Family Locator > does it work?

I am considering using the verizon family locator feature as a gps tracker. It costs $10/month, which would be ok if I knew it would work and show location with reasonable resolution (like within at least a few blocks). Also, does it send a notification to all the phones on my plan when the feature is added?

The target phone is an LG Extrovert. It says it is GPS capable and the location feature is enabled, but I know of no other way to utilize this feature.

Any comments/help appreciated.

ETA: I am the account owner and I have an android OS smartphone.

[This message edited by joeboo at 12:57 PM, August 20th (Monday)]

5 comments posted: Monday, August 20th, 2012