Me: BS H: WS4 kids DD #1 7-11-08DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.Started R in 12-09"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."
How did you know it was time to give up?
We’ve been married 33 years. H had an A 13 years ago. We said we were going to try and things were better. We both worked to make things better and they did get better……until now. He’s been through some health issues and I’ve been there. He’s on Wellbutrin and Zoloft. He doesn’t show much emotion. He’s also getting testosterone injections that aren’t really helping his ED. Our sex life isn't very good. I don’t feel loved. I believe he has a porn addiction that he denies is an addiction, says all guys look at pictures and videos. I’ve asked him to go to counseling together and he’s said no. My life would drastically change if we divorced. I don’t want to give up the way of life that we have but, I want to feel valued and loved and I don’t.
We have a comfortable life. Together we make enough to be comfortable financially. We have decent vehicles, own our home and some recreational items. We own nothing on any of these.
I’m asking for wisdom. How did you know it was time to throw in the towel?
17 comments posted: Saturday, July 15th, 2023
