Me - BS Him - WH (in our 50's)Together 31 years/ 1 teenager1st D-day - Jan 24/13 #? d-days from broken no contact and continued infidelity for several years. Attempted reconciliation.July 28/23 told him it was over and he wa
Pity party for one please
Today is not a good day. I was trying to make it a good day as it is a special day. But I started my morning by researching some more information about separating from a common law relationship and it is not looking good for me financially. I will be left with so little to live on in this economy. I hate him. But I have started to think that maybe I just need to pretend and keep living like this so I am not left without a roof over my head for my DD and myself. (I make more than WH and he will likely claim he can't work more due to mental health.)
I know I need to get a lawyer and I have been dragging my feet on it hoping we could just part ways and be done, but it's not looking good for that. And a lawyer is just going to add to my financial issues.
FML
5 comments posted: Thursday, August 17th, 2023
Just done
I am back posting here after attempting reconciliation with WH for many years. But it was never good again. Finally the last couple of fights made me realize I cannot continue in this relationship. The second last fight we had I told him that was it and we needed to separate and have been sleeping in separate areas since. He seemed to be trying to treat things as normal after the fight and I was beginning to waver. But today, just 2 weeks since that second last fight, I found texts he has been sending since at least then to a woman he works with and was trying to hook up with but she put him in the friend zone. They did go out on a date I think where this was determined by her.
So, here he is, still living in the house, acting like things could go back to the way they were while starting to look for another woman. And apparently has a dating profile(s) in that time.
I know I was the one to say that it was over, but I expected at least some respect to wait until we were no longer in the same home with a teenager before he would start moving on.
But I guess more the fool me.
5 comments posted: Monday, August 14th, 2023
Newbie here
Hi,
New to this forum...I have been reading past posts and the pinned posts at the top but there is so much information and so much of it is gibberish to me. Could someone please help me?
I am thinking of installing a keylogger on our home computer but I don't know what kind to use. We have antivirus software on our computer so I need it to be able to pass the antivirus. WH is also much more computer savvy than I am, so I need it to be hard to detect.
WH also uses a tablet at home. Is there something that can log from both devices?
Any information at all would be a big help. I have no one IRL to talk to or ask about any of this.
5 comments posted: Sunday, March 1st, 2015
