Me: 48 Him: 50 Married 22 years too many DS19, DS17, DD10 Divorced Know your worth.

Husband, Liar, Sociopath...

... How he lied, why I fell for it and the painful lessons learned. By O.N. WARD.

*** this book had me spellbound. And scared. This is my marriage. Well, was my marriage. I was this woman. Unfortunately her happy ending isn't very happy. Anyone who suspects there spouse to be in the antisocial personality spectrum, this is a really good read. And incredibly well written. Could be a thriller, if it weren't true.

17 comments posted: Saturday, March 26th, 2016

Let's talk uber

So I went to the uber login via browser search (not my app) and logged in. It is email and password. I forgot my password the first time, remembered it the second time. I did not get an email notification (yet) from uber re: forgotten pw. Once logged in, I can view my trip history.

Any of you have wayward spouses who use uber? That trip history might be fun to see...

I don't know if a login from another device sends any notifications, but I set my account up when I needed my son driven somewhere once. He logged in from his phone and set up the ride, using my login. I did receive an email about the trip, but no big red flags that someone (my son, with my permission) using another device logged in.

Anyone?

2 comments posted: Saturday, February 13th, 2016

Background checks

Can anyone recommend a site that provides thorough and complete background checks? Reliable? It does not need to be free.

6 comments posted: Tuesday, December 29th, 2015

Amx alerts?

I have uncovered passwords to my husbands amx and charter one accts. I have not logged into them yet and have had the passwords for over a week. I am fearful that he will receive an alert from either stating there has been a login from a different computer.

He went to great lengths to change passwords (long time ago he gave me the passwords in case of an emergency) to something I would never have figured out. But I found them, but don't want to look unless I am confident he won't be alerted.

He must not want me seeing them for some reason.

Anyone with insight on this would be appreciated.

1 comment posted: Wednesday, August 12th, 2015

Happy birthday warehouseguy!

Wishing you all the best in your next decade! You deserve happiness.

Your grateful friend.

(((((Whg)))))

9 comments posted: Wednesday, February 18th, 2015