StormyPrincess
Me: B exW 50 something
Him: XWH 40 something
Married: 20+ yrs; now divorced!!
2 DD; 1DS
Irritated? Perplexed?
Had a voice mail from ex husband. Haven’t spoken in over a month. He asked me to call. I hesitated because I thought he might ask for money but decided I better call back. He proceeded to tell me his girlfriend who he lives with was confronted by her sister in law as being the cause of our wrecked marriage and divorce. He said the sister in law got the info from someone in our former town who is actually his cousin-in-law. I haven’t seen her since July 2019 and looked back and gave just a few texts in past year not related to my failed marriage.
I said I don’t know what to tell you because I have moved on and been divorced almost for a year. I don’t live in the same town that we used to live in I have not spoken to anybody that lives there except for a few people at the vets office and I am more classy than that. I said I’m disappointed that you even had to call me to ask me about that because you know me better. I also said we are not in middle school. I said I don’t know what you want me to do about this or why you were calling me. He said well if it was me I wouldn’t want to know if he said it. I said actually I don’t do drama and wouldn’t care what people are saying. He proceeded to yell at me and swear at me and I finally said that the discussion was over inside to buy. What in the world? Have any of you ever dealt with this?
My kids see the girlfriends social media and every once in a while she threatens to kick somebody’s ass. I don’t want any drama from people and it’s been so long since my divorce was final in fact it will be a year in less than a month. This just does not sit well with me. That he kept on yelling and telling you I wasn’t listening. And I said I listen to you for 20+ years and he said I didn’t. Anyway I don’t know why I’m putting this out here I just wonder if anybody else has dealt with anything like this? I just don’t have time for The pettiness. I am going to be 55 years old this year. I don’t even remember such drama in middle school or high school. Thanks for listening to me ramble. SP
5 comments posted: Tuesday, January 19th, 2021
A new day!
The realtor is coming here this morning. Starting another chapter on the other side’ of the decree.
I kind of feel good. I cleaned last night and I’m going to get ready. XWH will be here too (we own house together).
I’m going to try to stay focused on the meeting and not speak to XWH unless absolutely necessary. If I open my mouth I tend to spew nastiness because of my newfound bitterness. So, send me your good vibes so I can stay strong and stay on point today and get him out of here ASAP. (Please).
This is a huge day. It’s 20 years tomorrow that we took the keys to this place and moved in. Trying to hold it together.
Thanks all!
((Hugs))
SP
16 comments posted: Saturday, June 27th, 2020
