BW, 55
WH, 58
D-Day 10/30/13, 11/20/23
M: 27
2 DDs 25, 23
Status: ??
Back 10yrs after first DDay.
I’m just so sad.
I found you all in Oct 2013. You were immensely helpful with R.
Just found out… he’s got a new AP. I can’t tell for how long (at least in July and again in Nov), but it could be years. She is married with at least 2 kids. I don’t know her. They meet up when my WH goes to periodic conventions for his hobby.
I haven’t confronted him yet, just so so sad! Our kids are now grown, we just bought a retirement home in another state. He’s retired, I’m not yet.
I’m having a hard time keeping it together for the holidays. Thinking of odd things like- damn, I’m going to have to cancel my girls trip to second house! Do I call AP’s H?
Can you R again after a second A? Do I want to? Last A he had ended it before I found out, which seemed like a more solid starting point.
He is so chipper and lovey, talking about all our upcoming plans (trip to Ireland, trip to second house etc)
56 comments posted: Friday, November 24th, 2023
