Im struggling with what to do. I need help!
How would you deal with your spouse joining the military without talking to you about it first? He knows I won't/can't leave whwre we live right now. I told him that it's a deal breaker for me and I want a divorce.
We are both in out mid/late 30s. I was just diagnosed with an autoimmune disease. Heart Disease. and a bunch of other health issues that I can't get into. I have a team of doctors that I'm not willing to leave. Also our son is in HS and wants to stay and finish where he is at. I also have guardianship of a family member that would have to give up to the state if I was to leave. Packing up is just not doable for me.Hes cheated on me our entire 16 years of marriage on and off. Every 6 months he leaves a job becuase he doesn't like it or he's bored. I've stayed with him through everything becuse he had a shitty upbringing and I was trying to help him. I just don't know what to do.
7 comments posted: Friday, March 8th, 2024
