People Finders & Spokeo

Signed up for Spokeo name search, e-mail, and phone search today, mostly for mental health reasons . I've got six months worth (but not a ton of searches per month). If there is someone that needs Spokeo help I'm glad to assist.

The number I was most concerned about didn't come up in Spokeo (but I did find most of the numbers I looked up). I paid for an individual report from People Finders because I didn't want to sign up for 2 subscriptions, and they were able to find a name for me. It was NOT the name I feared, which will now let me chill out for the rest of the day. Absolutely money well spent. For anyone who still occasionally looks through phone records for peace of mind, I think it could be worth a subscription to one of these services.

Good luck in your recovery, all!

1 comment posted: Friday, April 8th, 2016

Look up license plate?

I received a fine in the mail recently for not paying a toll in an area near where OW lives (in an adjacent state). The time and date mean there is no way I could have been there. I think the OW may be griefing me here, because someone had to specify my name if the vehicle wasn't registered under my information. If someone knows how to do this, can you help a girl out?

I just want to know who might have those plates registered...and if they show registered under me then I have an identity theft issue to deal with. Either way, I need help! lol

1 comment posted: Tuesday, February 2nd, 2016

Google Docs

I just realized another untraceable way that a WS and AP could communicate - Google Docs. They could create a document, share the document with the AP and use the chat function. As soon as the document is closed by both parties the chat is cleared. They could potentially use the same document multiple times. The only way to confirm something shady is going on would be to see the document that is created (which could very well be blank) and check to see who it is shared with.

This is a time consuming thing to follow up on, and would be very difficult to catch in the act. I hope if someone is searching for something and suspects the involvement of covert chat methods that they consider this possibility and catch their cheater in the act.

Best wishes to all of you still in an investigative capacity.

0 comment posted: Tuesday, November 17th, 2015

Buddhist Reading & Discussion on Forgiveness and Infidelity

I would love to connect with others who are viewing their experience with infidelity/betrayal from a Buddhist belief structure.

Are there any books you have found helpful thus far?

I am shopping on Kindle, and I did find a book called "Fidelity" by Thich Nhat Hanh (one of my favorite teachers) regarding long term relationships and healing from infidelity. Haven't read it yet, but will post after reading to let everyone know how it is.

28 comments posted: Thursday, August 27th, 2015