"Infidelity isn't in the sex ... it's in the secrecy. It isn't whom you lie with. It's whom you lie to." --Frank Pittman
"The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck"
"The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life," by Mark Manson
Don't let the title mislead you. While it sounds hopelessly cynical, it's actually quite empowering and level-headed.
Manson makes the argument ... that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited—"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.
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