Me: BS (41)Him: (42)Married 11 years,2 Daughters
dd1 04/11 claimed ONS
dd2 11/2014.Claimed ONS
dd3 09/15: found out more than 40 women/prostitutes.
dd4: 08/ 2017: saw old sextape from 2015 made before discovery
Dd5:11/2023: his
Back after 8 years. Husband cheated again and impregnated someone
Stumbled upon this forum 8 years ago. 2015. My signature says it all. He had blamed everything on being a sex addict. We went for therapy and things seemed to have gotten better.
Due to work and immigration purposes I had to go and work in another country in 2021. He was visiting us every 4 months. Been a hard time navigating work and childcare and one of our children got diagnosed with a severe life threatening condition.
Got a call from a lady today who tells me they started dating about a month after I left with the kids. They have been together for 3 years She got upset as he couldn't stop cheating on her with other girls (I am the wife!). She terminated a pregnancy for him and yet he continued to cheat. Says one of his girlfriends tried to end her life when she found out he was with her
Sent me pictures of him on tinder, bumble and some other apps and then says she repeatedly had been infected with stds.
He rented a house for her and was paying rent and gave her a credit card to use as she wished. (He has a lot of money). She has naked pictures and videos of him. She even told me how they were in bed together when I called to tell him my mum had died. Scarily she knows the names of my children and has pictures of them.
Anyway confronted him. He initially denied and then when he realised I had proof started saying she was the only one that he never slept with anyone except her and that he had decided to end it and be a changed man and so she got upset and decided to call me.
Anyway I know it's bullshit. I know he has been cheating.
Informed his family and have told him not to contact me unless it has to do with the children.
I am sad. Heartbroken but taking it a bit well. I cried a lot earlier today
The pictures and videos were hard to see. Called a few girlfriends who stayed with me earlier on.
It's going to be a long road......
8 comments posted: Sunday, November 26th, 2023
