Erstwhile BH and BBF. Always healing. Divorced dad with little kids.

Texts from old iPhone that I no longer have?

Hi, I thought if any group would know how to do this, it would be you all. This happens to not be infidelity-related for me, but I'm interested in performing this task for other reasons nonetheless.

My question: is there some way in the world to recover, or get a transcript, or *something* of old texts and/or imessages that I sent and received on a phone I no longer have?

Is there a database somewhere...a way to contact Apple...anything?

Thanks in advance for whatever you can tell me!

1 comment posted: Wednesday, September 25th, 2019

Divorce Book Recommendations

Hi all, I'm guessing there are multiple threads out there on this topic, but here goes anyway. I'm looking for two things:

1) A book to help guide STBXW and me as we prepare to tell your young (8 year old) child about the divorce.

2) A book to help us through the basics of everything. We are going uncontested, no-fault, no lawyers. Despite all the crap, I believe this is something we can do.

Mostly, because this is new to me, I want something that will help guide us through current/future family/logistical issues, not legal/asset/$$ stuff. I want to make sure we don't forget to talk about and explore some potential issues just due to ignorance.

Thanks in advance.

2 comments posted: Monday, February 6th, 2017

Good book for healing alone?

I read, it's kinda my thing. I've read all the popular books for dealing with A together.

So what if your WW is really your STBXW? What's a good book to help me out in trying to heal my own pain without the help of a partner?

I have Love Warrior but haven't read it yet. Is there something better?

4 comments posted: Friday, January 27th, 2017