Possibly inappropriate question

The sexual part of my new relationship, the first relationship I have had since leaving my WS, is about 2 months old.

My new partner said that she has never had sex while on her period before and didn’t have any real desire to do so.

However, that doesn’t bother me at all, lol....

So, last month we did it anyway, and it didn’t seem to be a big deal at all.

Last night she got her period again and said that she was not open for business, lol.

When it became clear that I didn’t care, she began having painful cramps... She did not have cramps, or at least voiced that she did last month.

To me, because of the past, lying is the worst thing I feel like she could do, even if its to spare my feelings.

So, I have 2 questions.... Is she lying to me? And if so how do I approach this?

I would prefer her just to be brutally honest, than worry about hurting my feelings and turning me down.

** Edit... I was just looking for some answers and/or support.. For some clarification, we have a very open and fun relationship l do not and did not push her. The previous month once aroused she actually asked me to have sex with her, hence some of my confusion. When I stated I made it clear I didn’t care, I meant in case her concern was due to some insecurity on her end... she stated other men find that gross. I was triggered by the idea that she might lie to me as I am sensitive to being lied to... like I imagine others on here maybe as well. It is not helpful for people to assume the worst and attack... I reached out as I thought this was a safe place. There are too many people on here full of hate and quick to assume the worst of others. Honestly, if you dont have anything nice or positive to say, why say anything at all.

[This message edited by Hurting8264 at 1:20 PM, May 1st (Friday)]

28 comments posted: Wednesday, April 29th, 2020

Trust Issues

I am separated and have recently started a new relationship with a woman I have known for sometime. We get along really well, but I am having some struggles.

How do I deal with my trust issues and fears?

Can you ever trust again?

5 comments posted: Wednesday, April 22nd, 2020