BW- (me) 2nd marriage
WH- (him) 2nd marriage
Vagina pics from old girlfriend on FB 12/16
2 month Long distance EA and PA once with childhood FB friend 12/07/18-02/02/19
D-Day 09/01/2019 two weeks after married
Eight Dates by John Gottman PhD
I discovered the Gottman Institute through a podcast on Spotify. John and Judith Gottman have written and co-written several books and they have researched and proven their methods to be effective.
Eight Dates is their latest book and it is a great preventative and recovery for both parties. It recommends you each plan eight dates between each other and gives you personal topics to discuss to open communication. I can't say this will be useful if the other partner or spouse isn't on board to review the exercises. It takes two to work on a relationship and repair it. I recommend this book to bring you closer.
1 comment posted: Wednesday, January 29th, 2020
