I just don’t feel I have healed
It’s been a long while since I posted.
This forum back in 2019/2020 gave me so much support and advice.
I am one year out from Divorce and 4 from DD
I won’t go over my story again but I wanted to talk about moving on!
It’s been so hard! I live on an island and the dating pool is tiny. I’ve been on and off with on line and have had nothing but painful experiences.
The first women I met became a bunny boiler and was very controlling and manipulative, but after time I managed to get rid of her after going back multiple times! I ignored red flags!!!
The second woman, I’ve met really nice, but she had an ex in the background which I didn’t know about. There were so many red flags which are just ignored I kept going back I just don’t understand why though?
I feel numb and I’m struggling to let anyone in.
Why can’t I cut people off? Why do I go back to these wrong people?
I hate hurting peoples feelings but I seem to attract people who won’t let go of me
6 comments posted: Wednesday, January 3rd, 2024
