What would you do? (Advice)
First time here, married almost 23 years. The last 2 years have been an ongoing struggle. My D day came full circle this past 07/03 when I found text thread in What’s App between my “WH” and “OW”. My husband has a way with “words” —exhibit A.. why we got married. But, I have confronted him and actually kept OW contact info and sent her a message.
My husband and I had another follow-up conversation today (calmly) we still live together in a house we bought 18 years ago-he still comes home. My big 50 bday is coming up. My husband is still included in the birthday dinner that my sis & mom have planned. We have a 21 year old son together. BUT, I took a birthday week off and have plans to go to Vegas. (With him). But everyone tells me NOT to take him. We are civil to each other, and this will be the last “get away” we will ever have. He finally owned up to seeking legal counsel to start proceedings to divorce. I am still in love with my husband-he has repeatedly said that he doesn’t have the same “feelings”
as before. I even said to him if you need a complete break (physical) then do that-to have opportunity to really think and not to do anything drastic & impulsive that is a life changing event.
13 comments posted: Saturday, July 10th, 2021
