H basically told my best friend he looks at her butt
My best friend showed me a message from my H and I heartbroken. My H told my friend " YOU BETTER STOP COMING OVER HERE IN THOSE SHORTS, YOUR ASS IS GOING TO GET ME IN TROUBLE "
MY H basically told my best friend he stares at her ass when she is around.
Why would any sane man do something like this? Before this, he had never ever done or said anything inappropriate to any woman.
His excuse was it was a joke. Which is complete bullshit because my H knew when I found out about this, I would be hurt. With the knowledge that my friend would show me, I cant understand why he would say what he said. My best friend now feels like my H is a creep. My friend does have a nice ass and I know my H has probably looked at it every time she has been over. That's normal. But to TELL HER. To tell her he basically likes looking at her ass disgusts me.
Why would any man say something so inappropriate to their wife's friend knowing I was going to find out?
Why would my H say this to her and not care how it would destroy my self esteem?
1 comment posted: Monday, August 7th, 2023
H basically told my best friend he looks at her butt
My best friend showed me a message from my H and I heartbroken. My H told my friend " YOU BETTER STOP COMING OVER HERE IN THOSE SHORTS, YOUR ASS IS GOING TO GET ME IN TROUBLE "
MY H basically told my best friend he stares at her ass when she is around.
Why would any sane man do something like this? Before this, he had never ever done or said anything inappropriate to any woman.
His excuse was it was a joke. Which is complete bullshit because my H knew when I found out about this, I would be hurt. With the knowledge that my friend would show me, I cant understand why he would say what he said. My best friend now feels like my H is a creep. My friend does have a nice ass and I know my H has probably looked at it every time she has been over. That's normal. But to TELL HER. To tell her he basically likes looking at her ass disgusts me.
Why would any man say something so inappropriate to their wife's friend knowing I was going to find out?
Why would my H say this to her and not care how it would destroy my self esteem?
3 comments posted: Monday, August 7th, 2023
How to make friends after a Double Betrayal!!
After a double betrayal, I feel I will never feel confident enough to make new friends. I will never feel comfortable bringing pretty woman into my life because of my disgusting H. This is one of the main reasons I want to leave. I wish I wasn't controlled by FEAR!
7 comments posted: Saturday, June 24th, 2023
Attraction to AP
My H still swears he was never attracted to his AP. I find that extremely hard to believe considering she was our neighbor and he seen her everyday and they had sex once. Can anyone give their thoughts on this topic??
22 comments posted: Thursday, May 25th, 2023
How do waywards act normal during their As?
I always wonder how my H was able to act so normal during his A. His behavior never changed. His A was with out neighbor/his friends wife and even when we were all hanging out together, there still was never an indication that he was having an A. How are Waywards able to look into their spouses sees everyday knowing what they are doing? I think I'm even more confused than most because of the things my husband told me for years prior to his A. He always said, " I'm so afraid of being hurt bc I was hurt so badly by my ex gf" or " I'm always afraid you will leave bc I feel like you are too good for me". How could he do to us the obe thing he feared the most? He knew how destroyed I would be and did it anyway. How does one ever trust someone again after this?
11 comments posted: Wednesday, September 21st, 2022
Double Betrayal Waywards!!
WS only
0 comment posted: Sunday, May 29th, 2022
Questions to ask my WH
WS only
1 comment posted: Saturday, January 8th, 2022
