Enforcing boundaries
So about a week and a half ago is when I found out that my STBX had been cheating on me, the divorce and separation were already in process and when brought the kids back the next day I'd decided to keep it in my back pocket and not let her know I was aware. She's expressed desire multiple times to come over to the house to spend time with the kids, water her plants or any other number of things. I've tried to avoid direct confrontation, I don't want her in the house, if she wants to see the kids for a few hours outside of the weekend she can take them somehwere (after I informed her the last time she'd have to their homework with them she was less interested). The wound is still fresh and I don't want to push to much till papers are signed, but feel like i'm being to much of a pushover. Advice or book recommendations for setting boundaries?
8 comments posted: Monday, February 28th, 2022
