She has finally broken it off with him....

So after 10 weeks since dday she broke it off with him. She has blocked his number so he can't call or text. He works in the same building so she will see him everyday, and afraid he will try to talk to her about keeping it going, He has left his wife for mine. My brain is telling me I'm an idiot, but I love her so much my heart doesn't want it to end. I have told her and she agreed that any contract with him what so ever she will tell me and if I find out anything I'm walking. I have told her that my brain is opposed to us staying together, but my heart wants her. I started counseling 2 weeks ago and she started last week (same counselor). 1st session ended with " In a perfect world how would you like to have this play out?" Told her I don't live in a perfect world but for us to remain together. 2nd session she told me to make a list of the pros and cons of staying married. I feel both these questions to be great advice to help me decide where to go from here.

25 comments posted: Tuesday, October 25th, 2022

Here we go again

So my wife needs attention and I own my own extremely short staffed business. So I have 4 days a month off and work 8 to 15 hour days trying to weather this storm. My wife is a teacher our kids are grown and moved out. So her om is a custodian at her school. She told me he listens and over the 3 months has fallen in love with her and she has deep feelings for him. So here's where I'm at, my wife is a great a mother to my kids as any mother could be. The best. So the om's daughter sent my daughter something that my wife was having an affair and my daughter called her brother that lives near by and the the 2 of them confronted my wife. I stood there and told them it wasn't true because their faces it would destroy them and their relationship with their mother. My kids are now the most important thing in my life and will not hurt them. So I told her she could keep her affair just don't get caught.

23 comments posted: Sunday, August 14th, 2022