Lonely wife

I need some kind of help or advice..

I have been with my husband for almost 11 years we have been married for almost 2 years no children I have 2 from previous marriage and he has one from previous relationship we have a bunch of fur babies together my husband and I actually dated when I was 15 he was 16 my husband took my virginity and we wasn’t emotionally mature so we split I ended up meeting some terrible human being ended up getting knocked up at 16 and having my first child at 17 ended up having one more baby and then Marrying this asshole (sorry my first marriage was AWLFUL) we divorced then BAM!! I decided to message my current husband on facebook we met up that night for drinks and have been inseparable since. My father just passed away in march of this year and him I were very CLOSE this was my first huge lost even death I have ever had to deal with in my 32 years alive so for almost 7 months I’ve been grieving my dad and trying to navigate my life now without him sorry for rambling on I have absolutely NO ONE to talk to and that’s not a exaggeration I know everyone says this but my husband and I are bff I felt like he’s the ying to my Yang we share the same views or similar on Just about everything sometimes we don’t even have to say a word to each other we just have to just look at each other and know what the other one is thinking right after our 10 years anniversary (was the beginning of July) I noticed a change in my husband he would pay more attention to his phone then me even in serious conversations he wouldn’t put his phone down and give me all his attention then he would go into the bathroom for 45 mins to hour depending on if hr was showering or using the bathroom then he would leave the house to run errands and be gone for hours at a time and always has a excuse why it took him forever 3 weeks ago on a Saturday night he working he texted me at 1230 am to say he’s was on his way home then I quit hearing from him then I get a phone call at 245 am he got pulled over and his license was suspended and he was in jail so I panicked and tried to get him out long story short his dad went to the jail and picked up his phone and wallet and gave it to me something inside me said check his phone the Lock Screen was disabled so I did and I found out why he had been so distant he has been sexting numerous girls on dating apps google chat snap chat talk about he’s a single dad and even was talking about paying some of theses women for sex from the messages I read it didn’t get that far the. To make matters worse I found out he’s been sexting a local woman who I have previously known from high school they we’re sending nudes and talking about fucking the past few months hr told me he met a old man through a mutual friend and had Been helping this old man with various jobs around there house and riding this old man places there was no old man it was that local woman they had inside jokes about how he was lying to me about her being the old man they talked about wanting to have a threesome with me and my husband told her that he only wanted to have a 3 way so that this could be his way of being intimate with her and come to find out when he got pulled over he was with her she got arrested to for warrants I threw up how could he do this to me I have loyal faithful and loving since day one and not to sound superficial but I’m a very attractive woman I’m a part time lingerie model and take pride in myself and she has no teeth and has acne marks all over her face I have been DEVASTATED since find out we have a EXTREMELY good sex life he likes for me to dress up everytime for sec and role playing and I dress up and go full out for him I confronted him and he admitted to it all but says he never fucked kissed or anything with one one else even the local woman I sent her a message telling her to stay away from my husband and she sent me even more of there texts and says she was only talking to him to get to me so her and I could fuck and I told her that would never happen my husband has apologized a million times and he seems remorseful but idk my question is does anyone think he really did have a sexual relationship with the local women or anyone of them I don’t know what to sorry for the long post

11 comments posted: Friday, October 14th, 2022