Caught wife sitting in co-workers car

Hi,

I was directed here by some reddit users. My wife came home last night with the low air pressure light on in her car. A pumped it up this morning before work and directed her to go straight to the tire center before work (opens at 8am) not far from our home. I work as a mobile tech and had a 7:30am appointment. My appointment ended up getting cancelled, so I was free until 9am and decided to head over to the tire center and see how things were going.

I arrived at around 8:15 and could see her car already in a service bay. I went inside and she was not there. I called her phone and she answered and when I asked where she was, she said "at the tire place". When I said that I was there, she got real quiet and said that her co-worker had brought her breakfast and she was eating with them. I looked around the parking lot and could see a truck parked far away in the corner, and then the door opened and my wife got out. Seconds later the truck sped by me with some guy driving and my wife was doing what looked like the walk of shame.

I asked her who TF was that?, and she said it was a guy that she works with who she is working on a project with and when she called him to tell him she would be in a little late he said that he was in the area and brought her breakfast. I asker her why they were parked so far away and she didn't really have an answer. Her body language was way off and she seemed spooked by the whole thing. I was pissed and got back in my work van and left. Then I started looking at our phone records online and it looks like the two of them have been having long conversations every morning on the way to work and on the way home. Hours of calls and thousands of texts in the last month.

I cancelled all of my appointments and went home sick, and have been researching this guy all day. He's 52 married, and does work at her job. We are both 49, married for 22 years and have two teenagers. I called her at this afternoon and asked her "what is going on with this guy" and "why are you calling him and texting him constantly?". She said that she didn't have time for this bullshit and would see me when she gets home. She will be home in about an hour and and I'm not sure what is the best way to approach her. I tend to worked up and don't want to end up driving to this guys house in a rage.

86 comments posted: Wednesday, November 16th, 2022