Should have seen it a mile out
WS confessed after D day about having a ONS. I had my suspicions when she texted me the night before telling me she was drunk and was going to sleepover at hers. I said ok convincing myself not to be insecure. Easier said than done when you have uncovered lies before, been stalled a number of times over 2 years from having the relationship talk as she was not ready and had little to no intimacy in that period. Due to my medical condition, physical intimacy has its limitations and i have always asked to address this area. WS always said that it is not a big problem and something that will get better. I even offered to part ways if it helped. In hindsight, I should have taken the decision by myself. It is something I always feared and now that it is real, I am broken. Another lie I failed to see through. And this was planned for a few days while i kept thinking that it will do her some good to be out with a friend and enjoy a few drinks. WS says she planned to tell me anyway as the guilt was too much, but the confession happened only after I asked for her friends number for any future emergencies if she got drunk etc. Its sad that WS had to resort to lying when I have always been wanting to talk....
40 comments posted: Wednesday, November 30th, 2022
