Making Out, Visions and Moving Foward
My wife of 21 years recently stayed late at work and ended up drinking and making out with a coworker. She came home, immediately told me and we talked about it over the next week for 12 hours a day. Reading and listening to infidelity books and online articles, we are now seeking couples and individual counseling to try to move forward. I am comfortable with all the facts, ( one time make out) and I think I am ready to forgive the mistake. She immediately quit her job and we are leaving this city for good in a few months. Is it normal to see visions, feel widely insecure? Am I overreacting, she’s been feeling utter shame and remorse? Does the pain stop or is this the new reality? So sorry to ramble. One minute I feel this is fixable and the next I feel so lost? Any advice would really help me.
6 comments posted: Tuesday, January 31st, 2023
