I just found out and have been through a month of hell.
Last year, my husband cheated on me.
I just gave birth, didnt feel good about my body and sex drive. I often rejected his advances and he suddenly turned to dating apps or swinging apps for sex.
However, he emotionally cheated with one of them. While this lasted 6 months, he was still trying to get me to go for couples counselling to work on our relationship.
Fast forward to today, I am willing to work things out with him but he signed a tenancy agreement for some space. He says he loves me and only me but he wants to work on himself and his own selfish issues to become a better person. Is this something cheaters do?? To work on themselves and their issues?
I am thinking of leaving to go back to my in laws (who 100% support me) to take a break and just recover mentally.
I know there is no right or wrong answer but words of encouragement and support please.. No hate.
10 comments posted: Tuesday, February 21st, 2023
