Some days im ok some days im not.
Found out end Oct last year when my sister caught him hugging his AP in the train. When she confronted him, he begged her not to tell me and that he wants me... when I found out I was devastated.They are working colleagues and it just happened as they were working on a project together. He stayed a weekend with her in a hotel. But he swears nothing happened. He said he couldn't do it.
We were in a rls for 11 years before being married for 3. I travelled solo for a week and decided to work to reconcile.
For those of u who did it, how did u know that this is wat u want? Somedays I'm so happy while others I'm crying my Lungs out. Why did he have to go and do this? I don't know if I will ever recover from this.
He is doing everything he can to make this right. Infact our marriage and rls seems better than it has ever been. But I don't know if it will ever be enough for me to forget this and move on. Pls advise. What if I can never forget the fact that he chose someone else over me for that brief period?
7 comments posted: Monday, March 20th, 2023
