Happy ending massage
I caught my husband at a hotel in the middle of the day a little over 2 months ago. He was receiving his second happy ending massage in about a 6 month period. We are working on reconciling I am so hurt. Anybody else in the same boat? Do I consider this full on cheating? I am grateful the heart was not involved and would like to minimize this to a stupid mistake but I can't, at least not yet. I am shocked and hurt over this behavior. He is full of regret and doing all the "right" things. He takes full responsibility and has not put any blame on me for anything. The last 3 years have been pretty rough stress wise with outside things. He has been my rock through this and now I feel it's all been a lie. It's not who he is. At least I didn't think he was this person. He says the same thing, however he did it. I'm at a loss. We are in MC - I will seek IC soon and pass on some books to him. Suggestions? But mostly does anybody else have a similar situation? I feel so alone.
21 comments posted: Friday, June 23rd, 2023
Happy ending massage. Anybody else?
I caught my husband at a hotel in the middle of the day a little over 2 months ago. He was receiving his second happy ending massage in about a 6 month period. We are working on reconciling I am so hurt. Anybody else in the same boat? Do I consider this full on cheating? I am grateful the heart was not involved and would like to minimize this to a stupid mistake but I can't, at least not yet. I am shocked and hurt over this behavior. He is full of regret and doing all the "right" things. He takes full responsibility and has not put any blame on me for anything. The last 3 years have been pretty rough stress wise with outside things. He has been my rock through this and now I feel it's all been a lie. It's not who he is. At least I didn't think he was this person. He says the same thing, however he did it. I'm at a loss. We are in MC - I will seek IC soon and pass on some books to him. Suggestions? But mostly does anybody else have a similar situation? I feel so alone.
3 comments posted: Tuesday, June 20th, 2023
New here
It's been just a few (8 short weeks) since I caught my husband getting a happy ending massage at a hotel in the middle of the day. This was his second time in 6 months or so. Our lives have been full of stress the last 3 years or so and I knew he was not ok - either was I. I have read some things on here only in the reconciliation forum as that's what we are shooting for right now. But those don't really give me hope either. So many people are so many years out and still struggling. I am so hurt but I do love him very much. He has been an amazing husband for the past 34 years. We've truly been happy. He is beside himself with the hurt he has caused me and we are in therapy. Will I ever look at him the same? I so want too.
15 comments posted: Monday, May 29th, 2023
