He did it again
I made a post a month back of me finding out my boyfriend of 4yrs slept with my best friend. I have now come to find out that after he slept with her he realised what he had and what he wanted. We just come back from a holiday away together, he seemed of with me so I questioned it. To then find out that for the last 6 months he has been sneaking of to meet a new girl I don't know and they have slept together many times in his car in are home we was renovating together to move into in a years time. He has also being flirting and texting her everyday and only stop talking to her 2 months ago. I have shipped him back to his mum's as I am completely and utterly heartbroken and feel like an absolute idiot for even trying to move past him sleeping with my best friend. How the hell does one even deal with this as I honestly feel like all the air out of my lungs have gone. Anyone got an advice or tips to help me get through this pain.
4 comments posted: Friday, July 28th, 2023
Am lost 😔
I've read a lot on this page trying to figure out what is the best route for me but I can't think straight. I don't what is right from wrong, crying to anger.
Me & my partner of 3yrs have a had a few rough patches from my children's father passing to him losing his childhood dog to his grandfather that was more like a father to him.
2yrs his grandfather passed and then his dog passed 2months after. In that time I've come to find out his was getting emotional support from my best friend. They would meet up & chat talk about me sometimes it was to see if he was in the wrong & how he could progress our relationship. Other times it was to talk bad about me. Mostly was talk of her telling him he could do better and that I am a narcissist.
It come to be that even I started to see things when they was together she would go out her way to buy him nice things. She would take to much interest in him & I raised these concerns with my partner and he said I was reading into it to much. I always felt like a 3 wheel when ever my partner and my best friend where in the same room as me.
It then comes to 2 weeks yesterday when I fell out with my best friend and she said that she could expose my boyfriend. This is when my boyfriend came clean and told me that he had met up with her on a few actions as he hated me & could only talk to her. Then explained that they had infact slept together and he instantly regretted it.
His been completely honest with any questions I have. I really want to work through this but my anxiety is on a absolute high, am ether crying or extremely angry. I question where he is when he leaves, am scared to raise an issue Incase he thinks bad of me and starts texting her.
He has removed her of absolutely everything and has really accepted the way I am at the moment but I feel like am on egg shells. I don't even know what am looking for here I just feel like am searching in a dark room and I can't escape.
10 comments posted: Tuesday, July 11th, 2023
