Trust

Hello,
I cheated on my wife on a few occasions a while back and have since been trying to rebuild trust. The problem is that every time I tell her something now or she challenges me, she doesn’t believe me due to my infidelity. I am really struggling on how best to convince her of my truths. Will she ever be able to trust me again?
Thanks in advance

7 comments posted: Thursday, November 2nd, 2023

Rebuilding trust

Hello all,
9 weeks on from my wife discovering my brief affair from 6 months ago. Have done well I think so far for how far we have gone but the reoccurring subject is "you can do everything but I’m not sure I can get past it". Is there anything I can do to help her in this stage? She thinks that she’s on a rollercoaster and that she is not sure she wants to carry on. We have talked about it a lot and she says there is nothing more I can say or do than I am already doing but surely there is.
Also how can I help rebuild trust? Are there are a few things I can put in place that will make her slowly begin to trust me again?
Thanks in advance

13 comments posted: Wednesday, October 25th, 2023

Divorce

I posted last week about my brief affair with someone a few months ago which has now come out. My wife has now asked for a divorce. I told her I will never give up on her but she said I should as she isn’t interested. Is there ever a chance of reconciliation even after divorce?

2 comments posted: Sunday, September 3rd, 2023

I have broken my wife and feel like there is no end in sight

I am the person who broke my wife and our family to pieces. I am selfish and thought I could get away with a few occasions of sex then go back to my amazing family life and wonderful wife. What a fool I am. 3 months later and she has found out. It’s still only 6 days in and very raw for her: and I think it always will be. I want to dedicate every ounce of my life to making things right for her and to give her some kind of healing. I have never seen someone in so much pain. And I am the cause of this. I am going to seek counselling for my behaviour and do whatever I can for my wife and the kids. Is there anyway back for our marriage? I will never give up on her. But I think she is likely to have given up on me.

18 comments posted: Thursday, August 31st, 2023

I have broken my wife and feel like there is no end in sight (moved to Wayward Side)

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1 comment posted: Monday, August 28th, 2023