Devastated and heartbroken

Aug 17, was my D-day. I had been suspicious oh my WH for awhile. That day he called me stating he was at a lesson but when I checked his phone, it showed his location at a total different location. By the time I drove to his car, he had just come out of AP's car. I was shocked! I had found them moments after having sex. When I got there wh asked me to please leave, like I would. I tried to open her door but she locked it. My wh told her to open the door. which she did. I asked them questions, some of which were answered some not. I asked wh if he loved ap, he said "NO". I told wh to say that to ap, which he did. I told ap she had better tell her husband or I would. Later after much screaming I found out that this affair had been going on for almost 2 years. Ap had temporarily worked with wh until she was let go. Prior to being fired, ap confessed having feelings for wh. They met at certain locations around the area of where we live and mostly in her car, but always sex in a car. Wh has cut all contact with her and promises to never talk to her again. I have asked wh so many questions, after seeing this woman am shocked at her appearance. She wasn't young, pretty or thin. I want ap spouse to know the truth but don't know how to contact him. I have sent text to ap to tell her husband and she says she has but I don't know for sure.I know I'm all over the place with the post and I am sorry. Wh says he was relieved I found out and had tried to end it several times, ap has accepted the blame and stated the same and she is the one who couldn't let him go due to her mental state. It sill makes me sick!!!!

21 comments posted: Tuesday, September 19th, 2023