A woman recently contacted me, claiming that my girlfriend is having an affair with her husband.

Two days ago, my brother received a message from a woman on Facebook who was inquiring about me. He asked her what she wanted, and she requested my phone number but refused to disclose her reasons. She insisted on speaking with me directly. The woman shared her name with my brother, but I had no idea who she was. I asked my brother to find out how she knew me. After contacting her, my brother informed me that she didn't have a personal connection with me but was aware of my girlfriend and needed to convey something important.

I decided to share my phone number with her through my brother. Roughly 30 minutes later, she called me. She explained that she couldn't talk for long because her husband would return soon. She had been trying to reach me for a week but couldn't locate me on social media. Eventually, she resorted to messaging people with my last name, and that's how she connected with my brother. She identified herself as the wife of a man whose name she provided, but I had no knowledge of him. She claimed that he works with my girlfriend and that they've been having an affair for nine months. At first, I found it hard to believe, but she insisted that she had evidence to support her claims. She requested to meet, and I mentioned I was away until Saturday morning and I could meet her sometime when I was back, to which she agreed.

Due to my work, I've been home for just three weeks out of the last nine months. This made me realise that it's entirely possible for my girlfriend to have had an affair without my knowledge.

I don't know what advice I'm looking for, but for the last two days, I have been researching the internet nonstop and came across this site.

76 comments posted: Sunday, October 8th, 2023