I Don’t Know What To Do.
We did 5 years of long distance relationship. When we finally did our introduction ( a ceremony where both families; including extended families meet and get to know each other) I got to find out my now husband, then fiancé cheated on me the night before our introduction. And what is wild is that that was the only night I left him all alone in his hotel room as I went to sleep in my parents house because of tradition. I go to know months later when we were already married. I saw his chats with the lady and I was broken into million pieces. I confronted him and he lied to me until I showed him pictures of the chat conversation. I don’t know if I have forgiven him because it is something I can never forget. I keep having this fear that he’d do it again. But I made him understand that moment I notice he’s cheating on me again; I’d walk away without looking back. We’re leaving with his parents right now because we’re trying to get our lives together and I have caught his father flirt with this particular on the phone whenever his mother is not around. I had a discussion with my husband about how uncomfortable I feel about this and he made me understand he’s not like his father. But I’m really worried that I’m seeing the red flags and I’m purposely ignoring it because I’m in love. I don’t know what to do.
9 comments posted: Thursday, November 16th, 2023
