Life has been great since my dad got in my life

Life has been great since my dad came into my life.I am also glad he loves and accepts me for who I am knowing he has a much happier daughter that replaced an unhappy son.We have got together and shown him pictures of me through my transition becoming my true self.He does use the pronouns she and her around me.I also have learned he is a 100% open minded and told me I have to live my life I see it as.I also have fully forgave him for what he did in the past,learned his lesson and shown it to me.I have met his friends and I was glad they were good to me.We even watched Trantasia together on Saturday.He saw the stories were like mine.I am glad it is going well with us.Mom is glad this is happening too

2 comments posted: Wednesday, May 22nd, 2024

Happy new chapter,a great new guy in my life

Happy new chapter in my life,new guy in my life.His name is Aaron and we had our first date on Saturday night.I met him through a friend of mine last month.I was amazed how he treated me well on the date.Knows I am trans being a post op MTF and no issues with him on this.He has been through it being cheated on by ex GFs and one ex wife.I am his first transgender girlfriend,has been curious and see him learning well on it.Did his research good.I am glad to have him in my life,we both have been in relationships that we have been cheated on in.It is going to go well with both of us.He has said his family is 100% open minded and I will not have issues with them

5 comments posted: Tuesday, May 7th, 2024

First week of my new job went great

First week of my new job went great, started Monday.I work as a semi truck mechanic with my CDL and medical card.I have these two due to I do test drives before doing repairs.Saves my butt just in case if an accident happens.My new co workers treat me good and got to know me.Open minded as well.Wendsday,they took it well when I came out as transgender,a post op MTF.Said they see me like any normal person.The stress is gone as well.My last job,it was stressful and I was treated badly.Gave them a 2 weeks notice before I got this job.

3 comments posted: Saturday, May 4th, 2024

Adopted a rescue dog last night

I adopted a rescue dog last night.A year old black lab named Missy.Found out she was with an old lady with dementia badly that went to a nursing home and her family did not want Missy.My friend Adrianne and her husband rescue dogs and cats that have been neglected and abuse.Adrianne knew I would like Missy and called me.She was right,I liked Missy on the spot and brought her home.Good thing is she is up on her shots and has been fixed so she cannot have puppies.Missy has adjusted to my home well and has a new role,shop dog.I brought her to work with me this morning.Boss saw she would be a good shop dog.She likes me very well and another co worker in the billing department started spoiling her.Gave her a dog treat.

12 comments posted: Friday, May 3rd, 2024

Things are starting to look better with me

Things are starting to look better with me.Started a new job today,semi truck shop fixing these.New boss liked that I have my cdl and medical card.This saves my butt when I get stopped during a test drive.I have been over my late husband's.Met my biological dad tonight for the first time,left mom when she was pregnant with me.Not mad at him knowing what he did was a regret.Plus he accepted me as his daughter.Knew he had a son and told him I had a tough time finding my trueself as a child.Told him I went through the transition starting at age 15 until I was 18 and had the bottom surgery at age 18.Looked at me and all he wants to see me happy in my life.Talking dating again in June,have a guy interested in me.He is giving me time,also knows I am a post op MTF transsexual and has no issues with this.I am happy that he is open minded loving and accepting me for who I am

6 comments posted: Tuesday, April 30th, 2024

Seeing a therapist tommorrow

WS only

0 comment posted: Sunday, April 28th, 2024

I am fully open about myself

I am fully open about myself and glad I am this way.I am a post op MTF transsexual,grew up with a very tough childhood that was not good.Knew I was trans at age 10 hiding it in and it did get bad during the 6th grade becoming a ticking time bomb.Then finally after school one day,mom came to pick me up and principal had her come to his office.Was concerned about me and told her.She listened and noticed it too being concerned.Finally when we got home,I did tell her I was really a girl from the inside.Knew this was it and we did get help for me.After being diagnosed with gender dysphoria,started living and dressing as a girl much happier.School was informed and worked things out with me.Transition at age 15 until I was 18 and had the bottom surgery at 18 which was the best part in August of 1997.My mom does not miss the unhappy son she had that was replaced with a much happier daughter

4 comments posted: Saturday, April 27th, 2024

Found out recently

Found out my deceased husband cheated on me in the past recently.I lost him in January and I did not know he was holding secrets before he passed away.Went through the closet on his side to clean it,found a shoe box full of letters from women he cheated on me with.I about lost it and it hurt with me crying.We were married for 12 years and he never opened up to me about it.Plus kids with 4 of the women he cheated on me with.Devastated and he betrayed me knowing the secret is in the grave now with him.My good friends whom have been there for me,Saw the hurt and pain get bad I have been through.The loss part,I have moved on and now this.

11 comments posted: Saturday, April 27th, 2024

Finding out he cheated on me

Finding out my husband cheated on me during our marriage hit me hard.I cried too.He passed away in January and kept it a secret now in the grave.I was cleaning his side of the closet out last weekend and found a shoe box full of letters inside of it.The letters were from other women that he cheated on me with.I was emotional and cried at first.I almost puked reading some of them,mentioned gross acts I will not mention.It hit me hard,good friends of mine have been there for support.These letters,I ended up burning them including the shoe box

4 comments posted: Friday, April 26th, 2024