Habitual cheater and liar

I got triggered my my WW the other week. She gaslit me around notihng going on and then threw her usual grenade into the battle, and it is a battle, she accused me of being controlling and her fact was that when she was in Japan last year with the daughter I knew when she had taken a large amount of cash from the savings account.
History is relevant, when she had cancer years back I took over the money organising so I set up all our bills so they come out in advance fortnightly. I also get emails if there are purchases that are large, unexpected and non-usual type spending.
I told her she can take back looking after the money if she wants and of course she doesn't want to take the responsibility.
She also threw a curved ball saying how my upcoming back operation $35,000 up front is from her money as well.
I sat through her 3 bouts of cancer, looked after our disabled daughter getting her to before school care, washing, feeding then going to work, coming home, picking her up from after school care then feeding her to leave and travel to the hsopital.
I worked 120 kms south of our home yet visited her 60 kms north of our home every day, held her hand and kept he family who didn't visit informed.
Yes in her eyes, I am the asshole.

Oh and to make things worse, my ex best mate is trying to link with me on Facebook. I guarantee she is "freinds" but I mentioned he sent me the request and she went ballistic saying I have to get over it.

4 comments posted: Monday, May 13th, 2024