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Momofmatt

Me: BS 60. Him: WS 56 Dday : 5.21.2024

Is it better to have details of the A?

So I saw a few emails between my WS and his AP but read just enough to figure out what was going on. I really want to read them all because I have this strong urge to learn all the details so I know the extent of it. Is that a bad idea? Just wondering what others have done and how it impacted any RC.

I have a therapy appointment later today and I’ll go over it with her but just was wondering how others handled this situation.

24 comments posted: Saturday, May 25th, 2024

Help for Newbie

Hi all. Newbie here looking for support. Found out yesterday that my husband has been cheating on me with a man. I always knew he was bi but he convinced me he loved me and enjoyed sex with me. 30 years later, he’s retired with Parkinson’s and I’m working full time and helping care for him. He’s 56 and was diagnosed 17 years ago.

I don’t know how to get through this. The pain is so intense it’s actually physical. My whole world has been blown up.

Someone please tell me it gets better.

14 comments posted: Thursday, May 23rd, 2024

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