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I think this is ok to post here (just figuring out the ropes)? I've been with my husband for 20+ years, married for 19 and it hasn't been easy. He's verbally abusive and instead of addressing it, after 18 years of marriage I finally reached a breaking point and allowed myself to get emotionally/physically tangled up in my male friend of 6 years who was also very close to my children (ages 2.5, 4, and 7 at the time). So many times I swore I'd leave my husband but at the same time I worried about splitting up our family (ik, ik, already headed there with the affair). He found out, friendship ended, and now I'm in therapy (husband had already been in therapy for a year prior for his anger issues). Couples counseling next week to see where to go from here. Husband feels responsible bc he's been so awful and wants to work through it. I'm trying to find the love I lost to make it work. Has been 3 weeks since discovered. 10 month affair. Just here to introduce myself and tell my story. Hope I did it right.
400 comments posted: Tuesday, August 6th, 2024
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