some of my story and issues
Hi All, first time posting, or really talking about this situation outside of the house hold.
I've been with my partner for 15 years, not married, no kids.
A few weeks a go I betrayed her, being unfaithful on a night out. I told her last week, waited a little because of shame and not having the courage.
I made no excuses to my partner and apologised, I acknowledged that I'd hurt her more than I can imagine.
We're still living together but she obviously does't like me very much and has no trust in me now. We mutually decided to stay together and try to work through it.
What I'm struggling with is that part of the reason for this happening was my unhappiness in the relationship effecting my mental health prior to the infidelity. Now I don't really know what to do and right now can't see a path that will lead to us both being happy staying together.
I think I'm scared of what would happen if I said we should move on, it's been such a huge part of my live, I don't really know anything else and it is scary.
I don't actually know what I'm looking for here, just wanted to get it out.
33 comments posted: Thursday, July 25th, 2024
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