Found out from the AP - Should I Respond?
I got a FB message from a woman I don't know saying she wasn't sure what my relationship status was with my partner, but that she thought I should know he's been sleeping with her for 4 years and one of his clients for a year. My instinct was to not accept her friend request, not respond, and go to my partner of 11 years.
He immediately admitted it was true and expressed remorse. He's on a work trip right now, so we haven't had a full sitdown to hash things out - but over the past two days I've gone back and forth on whether to engage with the AP. I'm currently undecided on how I'm going to proceed in my relationship. Not married, no kids.
This is the main question I have for folks who have gone through it... Should I talk to her? It sounds like she just found out about me (and AP #2) and is threatening to "go nuclear" on him and "ruin his life". I know he's (selfishly) trying to do damage control from all angles right now, and I know she is angry and hurt too... Would any good come from engaging?
13 comments posted: Friday, November 22nd, 2024
